Dive into the emotional impact of skin issues and ageing, as we explore challenges and strategies to boost self-esteem and confidence. Unpack personal anecdotes and expert advice, linking it to the profound journey of self-acceptance.
All of us, you and me included, have known the prickling discomfort of a bad skin day. Guess what, it's perfectly alright.
The bumpy ride of adolescence often begins with our first acne breakout and becomes a life-time preoccupation with age lines and wrinkles. [1]
But, have you ever pondered how these physical changes mirror our emotional journey? How they play hide-and-seek with our self-esteem and confidence? No? Then, it's time to dig a bit deeper.
The Skin - Our Emotional Mirror
"Put on a brave face," they say. But does our skin allow it?
From blushing when we are embarrassed to getting acne when we are stressed, our skin often tells a story before we do. [2] Scientific research has backed this.
Emotions such as stress, anxiety and fear cause hormonal disruptions, often leading to a myriad of skin issues. [3]
But what about the reverse? How do skin issues affect our emotions?
How Skin Concerns Affect Emotional Well-being
Contrary to the 'beauty is only skin deep' adage, our perception of our skin plays a crucial role in shaping our self-esteem and confidence.
Battling The Social Lens
In a society that worships flawless beauty, visible skin concerns like acne, eczema or age lines can invite unsolicited attention or, worse, judgments. [4]
As per a study conducted by the National Library of Medicine, Australia, about 60% of people with acne reported facing negative comments on their appearance from peers. [5]
This can lead to feelings of embarrassment, increased self-consciousness, and social withdrawal.
The Confidence Conundrum
Whilst we try to put on a brave face, our inner critic might constantly remind us of our flaws.
Research conducted by the Australasian College of Dermatologists found that people with visible skin conditions tend to underestimate their abilities and hesitate to take up leadership roles, revealing how skin issues can lead to reduced confidence.
From Judgment to Acceptance: A Strategy Outline
Let's reveal the ultimate secret: dealing with skin concerns isn't just about treating them – it's about understanding and managing the emotional journey alongside.
Embrace Yourself
First thing first, let's get this straight – you are not your skin issues.
They don't, and should never, define you.
Being comfortable with our selves, albeit with skin issues, can be a massive confidence booster.
Talk About It
People often sweep their feelings under the rug, not realising the healing power of conversations.
Speak with friends, join support groups – you might be surprised to know how many people share your experience.
Seek Professional Help
Harness the wealth of knowledge from dermatologists and therapists.
Not only can they prescribe treatments for your skin, but they can also guide you navigate your emotional roadmap.
FAQs
1. Do skin issues always cause low self-esteem and lowered confidence?
While many individuals may experience emotional distress due to their skin concerns, everyone's experience varies. A strong support system can be instrumental in helping manage these feelings.
2. When should I seek professional help?
If your skin issues are causing pervasive distress, negatively impacting your life or causing isolation, it's time to seek professional advice.
Though we might swim through the sea of perfect faces on our Instagram feeds, let's remember that our battle with skin issues is an emotional journey towards self-acceptance and confidence.
Our skin tells our story, let's make it a tale of resilience and courage!
References
[1] Hay, R. J., Johns, N. E., Williams, H. C., Bolliger, I. W., Dellavalle, R. P., Margolis, D. J., ... & Naldi, L. (2013). The Global Burden of Skin Disease in 2010: An Analysis of the Prevalence and Impact of Skin Conditions. Journal of Investigative Dermatology.
[2] Bickers, D. R., Lim, H. W., Margolis, D., Weinstock, M. A., Goodman, C., Faulkner, E., ... & Begolka, W. S. (2006). The burden of skin diseases: 2004 a joint project of the American Academy of Dermatology Association and the Society for Investigative Dermatology. National Library of Medicine, Australia,
[3] Jafferany, M. (2007). Psychodermatology: a guide to understanding common psychocutaneous disorders. Primary care companion to the Journal of clinical psychiatry.
[4] Rieder, E. A., & Tausk, F. (2012). Psoriasis: a review of psychosocial aspects. British Journal of Dermatology.
[5] Dunn, L.K., O'Neill, J.L. & Feldman, S.R. (2011) Acne in adolescents: Quality of life, self-esteem, mood, and psychological disorders, Journal of Clinical & Aesthetic Dermatology.